The first question that merits an
answer is what makes an individual smart. Is it the abundance of facts that one
can memorize? Is it the above average, or exceptional, IQ? Perhaps, it is the wisdom to make a sound decision
at the crucial moment, or knowing how to make the best out of the bad
situation.
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Maybe it is the ability to take
as many aspects as possible into consideration before deciding on the future
course of action. It is probably a good combination of all the previously
mentioned traits.
Of course, if someone is smart
and successful, it is hard to pinpoint what exactly is responsible for that
person’s success and wellbeing. Truth be told, it is far easier to notice what
these smart people don’t do, and arrive to a conclusion as to what is to be
avoided. As long as we circumvent these negative things, the rest will come
naturally.
1.
They don’t overlook the possibility to save
money
Prudence is a
virtue, not to be mistaken with greed or stinginess. Being able to handle your
finances and save, by avoiding unnecessary expenses, is an admirable quality.
In fact, it is surprising how many small details there are, warranting closer
scrutiny.
These seemingly
meaningless expenses can be easily avoided, and the amount of money you can
save can amount to something rather significant.
For starters,
buying a tap filter can reduce the money spent on bottled water. Opting to
refill a printer cartridge, rather than buying a new one is another judicious
investment. Replacing light bulbs inside your home with those that conserve
energy, is yet another wise choice. Utilizing apps to reduce credit card
processing fees, or choosing a big bank as your provider, instead of your local
town bank, is also a good decision.
The internet
has an unfathomable amount of quality content, both educational and
entertaining. Paying for a cable or magazine subscription is undeniably
meaningless. Almost anything you are after can be found online, at cheaper
price, either as a streaming service, or as an online news article.
The point is,
learn how to fully realize the things you are already paying for or have at
your disposal – that’s what being smart is all about.
2. They don’t heavily rely on
others
There is
nothing wrong with having friends, family members or coworkers you can trust
and rely on. Everyone should have someone they can count on when things go
south. Heavily relying on someone, however, only portrays you as powerless. As
a smart individual, you should never indulge such a commodity.
You can have a
brilliant mind, outstanding intelligence, etc. but if you do not put those
traits to good use, then you will only come off as incompetent. When you are in
need of assistance, pay close attention, see if your problem was truly
difficult. In a great number of cases, it is our fear and insecurity that
prevent us from acting.
There is always
a thought “What if I only make things worse?” The thought is perfectly
justified. The unwillingness to overcome such a fear on the other hand, isn’t.
3. They don’t act irresponsibly
Do not mistake
this statement as “Smart people don’t have fun” or “Smart people are boring.”
You can have fun, you can have a drink, or have a good laugh. Irresponsibility
does not equal uninteresting, it only means you like to have an organized
lifestyle.
Superior organization
leads to greater efficiency, whether you are a student, an employee, a business
owner, an artist, or a celebrity.
We all have
certain responsibilities, and they are not always imposed by someone else.
Putting them off for no valid reason is simply packing to travel into a more
stressful future. Almost everyone experiences how being irresponsible tends to
backfire, but smart people simply practice what they learn from such
inconveniences.
4. They don’t feel defeated just
because they need to reevaluate their convictions
Our
environment, our parents, our education and our past are all responsible for
forging our convictions and our perception of the world. It leads to a creation
of what is referred to as “umwelt” which roughly translates as “self-centered
world”. Umwelt is more connected to how we create the image of the world
surrounding us by using our sense, but it can be extended to our point of view
on philosophical matters.
The convictions
we acquire throughout life are not wrong per se, but are very likely to be
proven incompatible when exposed to an entirely new experience or more
difficult questions that need answering. Also, if you move out and change the
environment you are likely to witness different patterns of behavior, simply
because education, or lack of education in some areas, resulted in the blooming
of other other human qualities.
Sooner or
later, our convictions are challenged and sometimes they will triumph,
sometimes they will be trumped. Smart people constantly challenge their
convictions; they do not discard them. They reshape them, and they allow them
to grow proportionally with their new experience. Don’t miss out on the
opportunity to broaden your mind-set, you are not defeated if you gained
something valuable.
5. They don’t dwell on their
errors
To clarify,
this refers to companies that manufactured a bad product, or movie directors
who made bad movies, etc. It is not uncommon to come up with an idea for
something that appears like a true masterwork for us, but once it’s realized,
the general public may not be that impressed. It can feel humiliating and
really unpleasant, however it happens, whether we like it or not.
When you are
making something intended to be appealing to the masses, and in the end fail,
start over again from scratch. If you want to impress, listen to your audience,
don’t try to patch up the product, or make sequels, in an attempt to prove your
vision was brilliant.
This kind of
behavior will only cost you your credibility, and even when you manage to come
up with something good, people might not even bother to give it a try. It won’t
make you neither weak nor foolish, if you know when to give up. It will only
give you more time to work on your comeback.
6. They don’t permit their past
to hold them back
The past cannot
be erased, and it does not come back to haunt us, it simply never leaves. We
need to learn how to cope with it, and not allow it to interfere with our
future achievements. If there is nothing useful to be recovered from the past
experience, simply close those doors and let it go.
Past
experiences shape who we are today, and our previous struggles can build a
strong character, but people tend to use their past to justify their mistakes
or behaviour. Perhaps we use these excuses to gain understanding from others,
or to make it easier to forgive ourselves.
Still, if you
acknowledge your flaws but refuse to do something about them just because you
have an excuse, then you have chosen an easy way out, and that’s not what smart
people do.
7. They don’t rely on good luck
to solve their problems
“Hope for the
best but be prepared for the worst.” A good quote to be guided by when you
invest your time and efforts into something. Hope for the best possible
scenario is what motivates us, whereas preparing for the worst prevents us from
falling apart. On the other hand, simply hoping for the things to work
themselves out is no different from being lazy.
Luck should
only take credit for a fragment of your success, considering that relying on it
too frequently will only suffocate your ambition.
Besides, smart
people would never permit luck to take glory for all their hard work. When you
pour your heart and soul into achieving your goal, it would be disappointing to
give good fortune the title of “major contributor”.
8. They don’t neglect important
aspects of their business
One of the key
factors responsible for success is attention to details or just paying good
attention in general. When one is trying to be a smart business owner, he or
she is generally governed by the idea that with a quality product, success is
guaranteed.
The logic is
not entirely flawless, since even if you can offer a top quality product at a
better price than your competition, you are still a far cry from a lucrative
business.
The absolute
necessity for a successful selling period is credibility, meaning you will need
to have a good advertising tactic. This implies striving towards omnipresence
and professional appearance, which brings us to the most efficient tool for
spreading this kind of brand awareness, and that is your website.
The impact of
the website should never be underestimated; people will judge you as a
professional based on your website design, its responsiveness, authority and
its content. There are numerous people who offer an amazing type of service or
products, in person, but simply look like amateurs online.
Start off by
finding a good web hosting service, to ensure your sites responsiveness,
proceed with quality design, and finally, eloquently describe your product or
service.
Clearly, this
is a single example of an important aspect, there are others as well. like
providing a good customer service and creating efficient incentive plans etc.
But the point is never to push in one direction. Always work on numerous
fronts.
9. They don’t hesitate to learn
from their mistakes
Mistakes are
inevitable. Sooner or later something goes wrong, and an unaccounted for
variable emerges, and places a grave dent in our previously well-laid schemes.
You can’t always have everything under your control, and we do not have the
degree of awareness necessary to view every possible angle.
Mistakes are
there to remind us of our flaws, and force us to mitigate the impact they have
on our lives. Honestly, mistakes can teach us a lot about our lives, and
ourselves, but only if we let them.
Learning from
your mistakes means finding what is worth salvaging from your unfortunate
experience, realizing what went wrong and finding a way to avert it in the
future. Smart people use this input to work on themselves, and change the
things they have the power to change.
Arrogant people
look for excuses, and choose to blindly believe in their judgement without any
retrospect. Not only does this kind of behaviour hinder your future success, it
also drives people, and allies, away from you.
10. They don’t give up on their
ideas just because other people don’t agree with them
I know that it
was stated how knowing when to give up and start anew is a good thing, and how
being too stubborn or pushy will ultimately yield bad results. Well, a wise
person knows when he or she should push the envelope and stand firm when the
situation takes a turn for the worst.
There is a
difference between when someone gives your idea a chance and did not like it in
the end and someone not giving your idea a chance at all. We are all entitled
to constructive feedback on why our ideas or products are not satisfactory.
If someone
wants to discard our efforts based on a hunch, do not let them. Fight for your
chance to shine, or try finding someone else who will hear you out and
appreciate your idea.
There is always
a possibility that someone is intimidated by your expertise; thus that person
wants to hinder your development. If you want to publish or launch something,
look for more than one opinion. Even if the first one is flattering, look for
more.
Constructive
criticism can be used as a precious insight for the future.
11. They don’t make strong
remarks that can make them look weak in the future
Actions speak
louder than words. Don’t feel overconfident and use words of grandeur to
describe your future actions. It only makes you look like an attention seeker,
who will inevitably lose his or her credibility.
Credibility is
of the utmost importance for one’s future and well being, and we all know how
in “Boy who cried wolf” the loss of credibility had a strong impact on the
outcome of the situation. If you want to be taken seriously and to be
respected, don’t talk big without a means to back it up. Simply let your hard
work tell your tale.
12. They don’t lose the
opportunity to broaden their experience
This is closely
connected to the previously mentioned convictions, like Friedrich Nietzsche
said, “There are no eternal facts, as there are no absolute truths.” You can
never become a complete being, and you should never set such goals for
yourself. However, making ongoing endeavors towards progression in various
areas is indeed what a smart person would do.
Science
constantly expands our understanding of the world; it constantly tests theories
and comes up with new ones. Even old or proven findings are never left alone,
they are re-examined, redefined, and updated. They are constantly after
progress, investigating what is most likely the truth, not what they want to
believe the truth is.
It is a good
way to expand your database. After all, scientist are usually those who have
the qualities, or are perceived to have qualities, of smart people. The
majority of smart celebrities were and are scientists.
13. They don’t know how to back
off from a good cause
Much like with
the good idea, wise people do not back off from a cause worth fighting for.
Revolutions were led and achieved thanks to these individuals, and luckily, our
society is still flawed and can provide us with many causes worth fighting for.
We are often
criticized by our parents, superiors, or teachers about our tastes, our
interests and our hobbies. Honestly, they can be right from time to time, but
throughout the course history, a fix has emerged. Older generations tend to
scold things they do not fully understand, and are too self-absorbed to even
give them a chance.
Imagine just
how many art forms, in terms of music, books, and film genres would not be here
today if people didn’t regard them as good ideas. Today, video games are
struggling with the same issue. They are held responsible for violent and
troublesome behavior in youth, and people do not consider them a medium capable
of delivering deeper moral values.
14. They don’t waste the
potentials of their gadgets
Lacking
knowledge related to a certain field, or lacking the necessary skill to
accomplish a particular task, does not automatically make someone incompetent.
Smart people have a good way of overcoming these obstacles; they can find
solutions to compensate for their shortcomings.
Using your
gadgets to their full extent can prove to be rather beneficial in a variety of
scenarios.
Obviously,
smartphones and tablets have internet connection and access to Google, thus all
you need to do is know how to utilize these browsers efficiently. Almost
anything you want to know has a recorded or a written tutorial online, meaning
as long as you are connected to the World Wide Web, you will have the means to
solve tricky problems.
App stores have
an applications galore, and a great number of them are really remarkable. Sure,
there are those which are utter nonsense, but every smartphone and tablet
device should have a few useful apps installed. For example, you should have
apps that help you with your data management, making your job significantly
easier, in terms of organization.
Apps that can
help you navigate when you are on unfamiliar terrain, thus boosting your level
of security. Apps that can help you find good restaurants while in a foreign
country, like Yelp. Additionally, language boundaries are significantly
mitigated by use of translating apps, and even though they are not one hundred
percent accurate, they can still aid you a great deal.
15. They don’t overestimate their
abilities
Shelly’s
Frankenstein and Goethe’s Faust tell a wonderful cautionary tale about how even
the brightest among us can suffer a tragic downfall, simply because they
overreached past their limitations. Ambition and hard work are healthy and
nothing to be ashamed of, but without moderation, these qualities can be
dangerous.
Primarily, you
are likely to exhaust yourself continually, which can be indeed stressful and
it can have a negative impact on your health. The insatiable desire for
advancement in a particular field can cloud your perspective, and make you lose
grip on other important aspects of life. Ultimately, we can end up being
alienated from our peers, and it can be sad to have no one you can share your
success with.
Secondly, our
mind has its limits too, and very often actively thinking about the problem
doesn’t get us anywhere. We need to know when we are stuck and to take a break.
In other words, we need to allow our subconscious processes to grab the reins,
and see what happens.
You’d be
surprised just how frequently certain answers simply dawn on you. Moreover,
even when the answers appear obvious, it is better to examine them again in the
morning, perhaps they won’t seem as ideal as they did the day before.
16. They don’t make redundant
enemies
Regardless of
your status, whether you are a rising star entrepreneur, or an employee in a
small firm, you are likely to encounter enemies, nemeses, competition, whatever
you want to label particular individuals.
These people
are not malefic in nature. Your convictions, ideologies or points of view are
only incompatible. The problem is that you can never know what they may do if
they feel provoked, and they are probably perceiving you in the same manner,
which results in unnerving animosity.
It is important
to define a difference between enemies created by circumstances, and enemies
created by our actions. We have already established how our competition can
induce minor paranoia, so it is better not to incite any redundant conflicts.
When you socialize with stubborn and hot headed individuals, rest assured that
you are not the only one who notices their traits.
Trying to prove
a point and creating an argument with these people will get you nowhere. A
smart thing to do is just nod, or say you do not agree, and end the discussion.
When entering
partnerships, do a thorough check on your potential allies, see if they are not
prone to deceive you, but also make sure you don’t accidentally do something
that can be viewed as treacherous. Furthermore, if you are going through a
divorce, see to it that you do not separate on completely bad terms, since
creating a relationship based on acts of spite won’t do anyone any good.
17. They don’t allow their pride
to get in the way
Time to quote
one of my favorite manga artists, Tite Kubo: “If it rusts, it can never be
trusted. If its owner fails to control it, it will cut him. Yes, pride is like
a blade.” Spiritual teachings usually label pride as a bad characteristic, but
reality tends to tell a different story. Having pride is completely acceptable,
but being consumed by it is quite inconvenient.
It is not rare
that once you become so brilliant, you tend to automatically castigate the
opinion of everyone around you. Not only that, but you may often find yourself
rejecting a good proposal or initiative simply because you are not the one who
thought of it. Smart people rely on their reasoning and if too much pride
interferes with it, then it is a feature not worth nurturing.
18. They don’t put all the eggs
in one basket
This one is a
no brainer. Never fully invest yourself for the sake of realizing a single
idea. Always have backup plans, alternatives, contingencies etc. It was already
established that people may not be impressed with your design, or that
something can go wrong if we don’t account for all the variables.
This doesn’t
imply that you should be discouraged and back off when things don’t go as
planned, but this matter will be addressed later on.
19. They don’t lie to themselves
that everything will be easy
Finally, don’t
live in the illusion that life will be easy. Your efforts may be thwarted on
more than one occasion. Bright and intelligent people know how to pick themselves
up and make a comeback. They work on their confidence, and don’t expect things
to get easier. Even when things appear to be easy, don’t drop your guard – it’s
always quiet before the storm.
Smart people
love challenges and the thrill that comes from overcoming an obstacle. Having
some downtime is refreshing, but confronting and tackling new problems is what
they live for.
20. They don’t take unnecessary
risks
We all found ourselves, at some point in life,
when we could have taken a risk in exchange for a greater gain. In the event
you are an adrenalin junkie, a motto like “high risk, high reward” is not a bad
thing to live by.
Being smart and
calculated very often contradicts with this approach, since it is not implied
that you won’t face risks, but it limits you to only those that are necessary.
Even small risks with significant
gain, like lottery, are a poor choice; if you have some extra cash, save it and
wait for it to accumulate. Do not depend on people who are more or less
strangers, or wildcards, and stay away from the fluctuating stock markets. Work
hard to achieve success – don’t be tantalized by the possibility to change your
life overnight.
Compiled by: Djrdje Todorovic